5 HINTS FOR THE ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION

Communicating is a natural activity of the human being and a necessity. Through the communication we are connected, work, express feelings, learn and teach, finally: we live. However, to communicate in the assertive form is an art.
See down five hints for an assertive communication in the work and in the social relations.

1. KNOWLEDGE - knows what he is going to speak, before going out uttering words and gestures. Persons who insist in " I find " they become discredited in a little time. It fails on what you know or have experience, even when it will be an opinion.

2. BE STRAIGHT - persons who speak, they speak, do not tell them to me anything, or simply they roll up also become the worst communication . The care is not to be aggressive. This is the difference between assertive and aggressiveness. The assertive communication is straight to the point, plainly, while the aggressive thing does valuable judgement, attack, it imposes his ideas and informations.

3. TAKE CARE OF the LANGUAGE - one of the commonest faults in the communication of day by day is to speak and to write without the debts taken care with the language. In the communication spoken already it is difficult to hear determined mistakes of language, but in the written communication it is still bad. When it took care.

4. USE THE EMPATHY - be tried to put at the place of other. Will it be that another person is I understand what you communicate? Will it be that you are chattering without leaving too also to be communicated? Finally, do the exercise of intending how it would be to be from another side while you communicate.

5. PHYSICAL LANGUAGE - pays attention to physical language. Since we know the communication it is ugly basically of the well-known language (writing and oral) and the physical one. Many persons do not pay attention to gesticulation itself and her of other. Be attentive.

There are several signs what they demonstrate if the conversation is pleasant or flat. Investigate in respect and swift attention in the reaction of other persons while one communicates.

For a good communication there is necessary auto-car and a good dose of training. Pay attention to others to perfect his way itself of communicating.

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A comunicação assertiva é uma arte, principalmente no ambiente de trabalho. Saber se expressar bem é ter a certeza que 95% dos problemas serão resolvidos de forma clara e objetiva. O texto suger 5 dicas para se ter uma boa comunicação.
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Vocabulary

KNOWLEDGE: Conhecimento
ASSERTIVE: Assertivo
EMPATHY: Empatia